January 2010
1 post
It's a Boy! Now what?
She was twenty years old when she left school and began working as a part-time waitress. She found a boy and fell in love. Soon after they started their relationship, they decided they wanted to have a baby. They tried for a few months and soon found she was pregnant. She moved into her boyfriends parents house with her boyfriend where she unfortunately miscarried her first child. She took some...
December 2009
5 posts
I choose to be happy at the start of each day. My happiness continually brings me more happiness!
12.2.2009
Union Tribune: Spontaneously bursting into song isn’t something you typically do but today you just might. Your life is so upbeat that it really could use its own soundtrack, and you know just how to score it!
Email: The Full Moon places emphasis on who you have become over the past six months. The changes you’ve been going through become more evident at this time; as the Sun and...
November 2009
3 posts
My Voice Can Be Heard!
Last week, a musician friend of mine asked me to join him on a song he will be performing at an event coming up towards the end of the month. I’ve been singing for a few years now but only in my shower and only for myself. I’ve had the biggest case of performance fright since…forever. I do not like to sing for people and when I’m asked to, I immediately run and hide. The...
The List Of My Love.
Last Saturday, I had lunch with Patrica and Lee. They are one of my favorite couples! We were sitting at a table waiting for our meals when Patricia asked me to make a list of the things I want in “the one.” The man of my dreams. My perfect match. It was an akward conversation to have with one of the most perfectly matched couples I have in my life. Actually, I have three favorite...
September 2009
1 post
Five Women: One Roof
My best friend called me on Wednesday and filled me in on her life. She told me that there was a high possibility that one of our friends will be moving into the house with her and our other friends. This woman is a very beautiful, very creative, inspirational woman in our community. I’ve always liked her and always enjoyed her presence. But when my friend told me she was thinking of moving...
August 2009
1 post
Creeping Pasts
In the restaurant, I was working behind the bar. I was handing off food to my runners and being a Monday evening, the traffic was slow. The plush booths at the tables kept the floor seats full most of the evening so barstools stayed vacant. Until about three hours into my shift. I was joined by two ladies, one gentlemen, and they seemed to be involved in their conversation. I treated them as I...
July 2009
2 posts
5 Condom Rule
Me: Yea, I got tired of sleeping with weirdo guys.
Bobby: Me too.
Me: I feel like, if they're sleezy, their penis is probably sleezy too. And I don't want a sleezy penis inside of ME.
Bobby: Condoms. Duh.
Me: Yea but, it's still In There.
Bobby: 5 condoms will do.
hahaha, I'd forgotten about the 5 Condom Rule of sexing sleezy dudes.
“A common core of personal and social abilities has proven to be the key...”
– Daniel Goleman
June 2009
4 posts
Boys Can Be Friends.
This past weekend I attended Elysium, a midsummer music festival on the La Jolla Indian Reservation. I arrived Friday evening just at the sun was setting and stayed until the sun began to set on Sunday. It was a eclectic experience, a gathering of a few hundred people. I camped in a spot that had about fifteen people, most of which were couples. I’ve been single for a bit now and I...
"Where Is Our Future?"
This photo is by Nikar.
So lovely.
Click the photo for a link to her photos.
Looking For The Lost Gold.
Normally, I spend the morning hours of each Sunday at my local farmers market. About five weeks ago, I had to make a quick stop inside a Fed-Ex shop to send off a package. I was patiently waiting for the next available cashier when a book on a nearby rack caught my eyes. I picked it up mostly because it had the word “motivate” in its title. The title itself came across a bit cheese...
The Birth of Ellie Sol.
Six days ago was my twenty-fourth birthday.
I live in San Diego, a city that sits on the southern coast of California. I’ve lived here for the majority of my life. I have had the opportunity to watch my peers grow as I have done and some I have watched leave home to discover other parts of the worlds. Meanwhile, I have stayed in San Diego, watching people from all over the world...